I did learn several ways to avoid getting a UTI and they are:
- Wash both male and female "parts" before BDing
- Urinate as soon as possible after BDing to wash out any bacteria that might have worked its way in
- Do not use baby oil as a lubricant. I read this was a TTC safe lube like PreSeed (read: sperm friendly), but b/c of the UTI, it's not ideal.